8.3 What
do I do if I do not feel like following other people’s advice and want to do
things my own way?
Remember that it is the ego that
is preventing you from listening to other people. It is ego that has caused
iblis to be discharged from heaven. If someone who is successful has given an
advice on how to achieve something, why not follow it as the person has gone
through the same process and is willing to show you the shortcut of the long
journey. If you are certain that you own way is good, then go ahead, but do not
give excuses for not following the advice.
Learn from people. Find a good role model. Ask questions. Get inside
their heads. Learn to think how they think. In time you will develop your style
but a role model can get you rolling.
Andrew Matthew (Author of Being Happy)
(How to become a good &
successful medical student; Muhaya Hj Mohamad)
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