Thursday, October 11, 2012

Chapter 10 : Assets of a good Medical Student ( 2 )


6. Competitive

This spirit is important as medicine is a field that is highly challenging and the exams can be tough. This does not mean yhat one has to be selfish and not help one’s colleagues to acquire knowledge for fear that they will get better marks. There has to be a healthy mindset where a benchmark is set and students should strive to achieve it.

7. Respect for others

All medical students must develop this highly crucial values as they will dealing with people who, as well as their relatives, are physically well but can be mentally or emotionally disturbed (as a result of the patient’s illness). Respectful behaviours will automatically gain respect from the other party and this will help in the management of both the patients and relatives. In addition, respect from the lecturers, friends, and colleagues will foster good relationships and will create a healthy working environment.

8. High EQ-emotional quotient

This very much talked-about new quotient, apart from the usual IQ or intelligent quotient, is important as it will determine how one handles one’s emotion in a stressful situation. It is about expressing one’s emotion in a way that will not hurt other people even though what has to be said a negative remark. As an example, one can show his or her anger or displeasure in a polote and gentle voice but the message of displeasure is put across. The strongest person in the world is actually one who can control his or her anger.

9. High SQ

Spritual and social quotient : this involves ensuring one’s relationship with God. All religions teach their followers to exercise good behaviours. A person who has high spiritual quotient will do what should be doneand not otherwise. This will lead to the development of wholesome person who will be gentle to the people surrounding him and other creatures created by God. This will then lead to a high social quotient where a person will not harm or hurt anyone by his looks, words and deeds.

10. Goal-driven

This makes someone focused on his or her work and not lose his or direction in life no matter what happens along the way. This will create a healthy attitude towards their study, examination, training and relationship with their frends.

11. Team-spirit

This is extremely essential in the medical field as medicine is always about teamwork where a patient may present with a problem that has to be managed by a team of doctors. This requires one to be tolerant and accommodative with a high EQ and SQ.

12. Serenity

The common Malay term is lapang dada. In this age of academic afferent chievement and material gain, soul cleansing is very important. In the medical field, different people have different levels of achievements, especially during medical schools. A medical student who does not appear to study may do well in his or her exam compared to another student who has been slogging for the past few months.

The lack of soul cleansing or high spirituality will lead to unhealthy feelings of jealousy towards the high achievers and blaming of perhaps the surrounding, lecturers or even God for one’s failure.

However, if one has serenity as a result of soul cleansing, seeing the success of others will futher motivate one to work hard and create the feeling of happiness of other people’s achievement. This will allow one to accept his or her failures and work hard for future exams whilst preventing any ill feelings towards others.

13. Accommodative
 
This is an important  asset that is neede to allow a person to tolerate negative values or situations around him or her. As a medical student, one is bound to meet various types of personalities who may not be to his or her liking. This can range from one’s friends, lecturers, patients and medical staff. Lack of accommodative attitude can lead to loss of tolerance to others. This will cause disharmony in one’s relationship with other people.

(How to become a good & successful medical student; Muhaya Hj Mohamad)

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